Wednesday, March 24, 2010

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Everyone has a point in their teenage life where they question themselves or have a low self-esteem. It's not something you can just take. It's an emotional/mental feeling when you know that you are okay being you and know what you're worth. Today, studies show that self-consciousness is found mainly in the circumstances of:
1)Family
2)Friends
3)Peers/School

To know if you have a high self-esteem, you must have these "senses":
1) A sense of security.
-feeling safe at home, school, and your neighborhood
2) A sense of belonging.
-feeling connected and accepted by others (family, classmates, etc.)
3) A sense of competence.
-doing things that make you feel confident, in control (drawing, singing, etc.)
4) A sense of who you are.
-not easily swayed by others, no peer pressure, accepts responsibility of what you do, and know what you're limits are
5) A sense of purpose.
-have your own goals and power to see them through (what makes you happy and fills you with passion; fulfillment)

Production, A Girlsource. "How can i feel better about myself?." Girlsource: A Book by and for Young Women About Relationships, Rights, Futures, Bodies, Minds, and Souls. Berkeley, CA: Ten Speed Press, 2003. 12-13. Print.

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